Tuesday, June 21, 2005

Birthday Parties

Each of my children had a birthday party to attend on Sunday. We dropped my son and a friend off at one party and I brought my daughter to the other party. I did ask ahead of time if I could stay with my daughter and the mother replied "I won't even be there, so feel free."

My son's birthday party was in the Marais. Having just been there last weekend the kids were excited to be somewhere familiar. It's so funny. They get out of the metro and they are surprised.... "we've been here before!" Why, yes, just 7 days ago. It reminds me of when I pull something out of a closet... like a toy and my son sees the toy and tell me "mom, I've found one of my toys!"

Anyway, we walked through the Marais again. I don't think there is a more fun, lively place to walk around on a Sunday in Paris. There are so many quaint, unique shops and most of them seem to be open!

Our destination: Musee de la Magie. I'd never been to this museum before. In fact, I'd never even heard about it. But now that I'm writing about it and searching for links, I see that the Washington Post wrote an article last week about this small museum!

At the party, the kids learned a few magic tricks. They also interacted with the automated curiosities... a hand sticking out from a box ...when you shake the hand a top hat is raised. My son loved that. He also mentioned a mirror that breaks and slides down the wall when a person passes. My daughter and I actually passed by the mirror when we were dropping him off and it really scared us! My son came home from the party with a magic trick (le coquetier magique). He was very excited to show off his new magic skills. A very successful party, indeed.

Room of old automated curiosities.

My daughter's party was at someone's home. We walked in to the party to find the entertainer that we used for my daughter's party. As a result, the entertainer gave us a warm welcome. He did his usual show. Just for your information, the typical entertainer at a kid's party does... make up ... magic tricks ...drinks and cake.... open presents....marionette show...go fishing for presents... and often blow up balloons and shapes them into animals. I've been to a lot of birthday parties and no matter the entertainer, that is the normal show. This guy, our guy, also brought a dove and bunny rabbit. At my daughter's party in February she refused to touch either animal. She also refused at her friend's party in April. But on Sunday she did pet the rabbit. I was so proud!

Here is the food table for the kids. This is a truly typical spread for a birthday party. Marshmallows are a popular "special" item at the birthday party. You can buy them in the bag, as we know them, but they are also a specialty item in most boulangeries...basically a gourmet snack. There is also a flourless chocolate cake. Just about every French kid's party has this chocolate cake.

Notice the sandwiches above? I was helping out and wanted to pass the sandwiches around. So I ask the host's babysitter what kind of sandwiches they were so I could tell the children. She says "American Lady's Choice spread." I ask what she is talking about. It doesn't sound American to me. She brings out the bottle below.... I think I would describe it as tartar sauce. I told the woman I wasn't aware of Americans who made sandwiches with this stuff (although I went through a phase of making miracle whip sandwiches). The things Americans get credited with in France!

-- said Auntie M in Paris
10:20 PM



The food spread looks delicous - nice finger snacks. I have seen marshmallows as a gourmet item in gourmet food stores.

The automated curiosities remind me of the Musee Mechanique (here in SF)where my son used to be taken all the time with his summer camp. Thanks for the museum link - another must see! And what a cool birthday to have there.

Happy "vacance", Terry in SF

# posted by Anonymous : 11:08 PM  

Oh, that party looks so lovely! Whatever are your kids going to think when they go back to the US and see what the kids eat for birthday parties there? "You mean there's no flourless chocolate cake?" :)

# posted by Coquette : 11:21 PM  

Eww! Eww! Eww! Did they only have the American Ladies spread on their sandwiches???

What is "flourless" chocolate cake? *feels rather American*

# posted by Laura : 2:30 AM  


I really enjoy reading your blog about Paris- I didn't realise quite so much what a fascinating city it is, and I always love seeing your pics of where you've been. It makes me want to visit some day, but being in New Zealand we're a long way away!


# posted by Anonymous : 2:58 AM  

Oh dear "Lady's Choice" seems like one of those 'sauce américaine' concoctions people are always offering me at French barbecues. ick! It IS scary what we get credited for.

The magic museum seems delightful! What a good place for a birthday party.

Isn't flourless chocolate cake a "Fondant au Chocolat?" Very rich with just sugar, lots of chocolate and egg yolks. It sort of has a moist brownie consitency.

# posted by chrisc : 8:55 AM  

strangely, I know "lady's choice sandwich spread" and I grew up in the Philippines!!! hehe

Do flourless cakes taste anything like no-bake brownie?

# posted by Melissa : 11:48 AM  

So the Lady's Choice stuff... it's like a Mircle Whip kind of thing?

# posted by ViVi : 12:19 PM  

Maybe Lady's Choice is a British product.

Serving marshamallows at a birthday party is a great idea!

Thank you for giving us a glimpse into Paris life.

Ever thought of writing a book?

# posted by Shannon Lewis : 1:49 PM  

Sandwich Spread!! That's what I used to have in my packed lunch sandwiches for school. A staple in the British schoolchild's lunch.

Or was it just my mum?

# posted by L'Oiseau : 1:51 PM  

ooh, that looks like a posh spread to me. I've never seen sandwiches at any of the kids' parties my lot have been to (must be the company I keep).

My favourite part of this post is the fact that the mother doesn't attend her own daughter's party (though you graciously don't editorialise, just mention it). Where was she? Playing golf? Having her hair done?

# posted by englishwoman : 1:53 PM  

Oh I love visiting your blog! It is so fun to live in Paris 'vicariously'! I described the sandwiches to my 11 year old daughter and she was horrified! She liked the idea of marshmallows at a party, though! She has been teaching herself all kinds of magic tricks lately so we will definitely visit the magic museum when we are in Paris in August. Thanks again, I am really enjoying your posts and pix.

# posted by melie : 6:04 PM  

How very enjoyable to read of your life in France. Thanks for sharing this delightful post.

# posted by Maggie Ann : 10:47 PM  

As a child, I remember eating sandwiches with Kraft Sandwich Spread. Is it similar to American Lady's Choice spread?

# posted by Oz : 12:30 AM  

Terry, The magic museum was a big hit. I don't know why I'd never heard of it before.
Coquette, There are so many things my kids will miss when they move back. They will probably think that American cream cheese tastes weird!
Laura, I've added a link to the chocolate flourless cake so you get a feel for the recipe.
Ruth, Paris is worth the trip. Come visit!
Chrisc, My French/American cookbook lists the cake as a regular "gateau au chocolate." Isn't the fondant the one that's gooey in the middle? I'm not sure.
Melissa, On the Lady's Choice website it seems to indicate the product is sold mostly in Asia. Yes, the flourless cake tastes a lot like a big brownie.

# posted by Auntie M in Paris : 8:02 AM  

Vivi, I only took a quick look, but it looked like there were little pieces in the spread... like a tartar sauce. It had the same smell as miracle whip.
Shannon, The marshmallows are popular. I wonder what the French would think of smores!
L'oiseau, You used to get sandwiches with no meat or cheese? I guess I do the same thing giving my son Nutella sandwiches because he doesn't like meat or cheese.
Englishwoman, The mother is an artist and had a show that day.
Melie, The other good thing about the museum being in a cave is that it hopefully won't be too hot in August if you go there for a visit.
Maggie Ann, Thank you for your nice comment.
Oz, Yes, very similar to that.

# posted by Auntie M in Paris : 8:08 AM  

Having a Summer BBQ, a kids birthday Party or with Family & Friends?
Then worry no more.....you may need the following:

Adult Birthday Party Supplies www.hostMYparty.com

Adult Party Theme Decorations (Beach Party Theme, Hawaiin Theme, Kids Party Theme, etc..) www.hostMYparty.com

Kids Party Pinatas www.hostMYparty.com

Bridal Shower Supplies www.hostMYparty.com

AND much much much much MUCH more... www.hostMYparty.com

# posted by Party Decorators : 2:00 AM  

Those are some beautiful pictures.... God bless you all.

# posted by Party Decorators : 2:04 AM  

I just moved to Paris with my 9 year old and 5 year old and was searching the web for "kids birthday parties in Paris". I came across your blog; a great site for my future reference! Any chance I can contact you for the entertainer's details (telephone number, rates, etc.)? My 5-year old is turning six soon and I am trying to plan her party...I'm a member of WICE, my daughters attend Marymount, etc. - so my enquiry is legitimate. You can email me at lauracumminginnyc@hotmail.com.
I'm also looking for a cello instructor!

# posted by Laura : 10:13 AM  

Post a Comment